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Not My Story
When I was first asked to speak at the women’s empowerment conference back home, my immediate response was of course . I believe that...
rayanadowner
Sep 65 min read


Olandria's Love
Our dear Olandria. Loved by many, trusted by all, the classiest of them all. Everything she has presented herself to be on screen has...
rayanadowner
Jun 294 min read


You are Love(d)
The other day in therapy, my therapist had me read something that helps you better understand anxiety — and when I tell you I immediately...
rayanadowner
Jun 14 min read


Tighten Up
You know how every time we go on vacation somewhere warm, or the moment it consistently hits 75+ degrees, we find ourselves saying, “I...
rayanadowner
May 133 min read


A Letter To You
I can't believe it's been 14 years already. That’s such a long time. The boys have grown into young men. They haven’t seen you since they...
rayanadowner
Apr 204 min read


Changes
This whole moving to a brand new place shit is crazy. Off rip, I was ready to leave home because I genuinely felt that there was nothing...
rayanadowner
Apr 202 min read


Over It- No Summer Walker
I'm hurt. Like, extremely hurt. But there's also this dash of relief… a little comfort in moving on. I'm hurt because even after months,...
rayanadowner
Apr 125 min read


You Don't Know What You Don't Know
I chose to title my blog “You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know” because it honestly just made sense for the phase of life I’m in. It’s...
rayanadowner
Apr 123 min read


Why Not You?
As much as I said I wanted this new job, prayed for it, deep-dived into the application process, and have spoken about it as if it was...
rayanadowner
Apr 123 min read
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